I babysat 6-week-old Baby the other day. It has been a long time since I took care of a baby given that my own babies are in their late 20s. I managed to keep everything under control for the short time I was in charge and when it ended, something beyond the beauty of Baby stuck with me.
It went like this…I smiled at Baby while making a goofy face and talking to her in baby talk and she smiled back. Yes, I know she’s advanced for her age but nobody should be surprised given her lineage. Anyway, I was goofy and Baby smiled a few more times, and when she got tired of looking at me, I gave her a break from all the fun.
Later in the babysit I saw a small Minnie Mouse rattle inside the diaper bag so I took it out and shook it a few times for Baby. She smiled. I shook it again and she smiled again. When I moved the rattle out of Baby’s sight, she stopped smiling only to start again when I moved it back. I know, big deal, all babies smile at people and toys, including things with Minnie Mouse. But what stuck with me is why she smiled. I always assumed that smiling involved some behind-the-scene processing where the smiler sees, hears, tastes, or touches something, decides if it’s smile worthy and if it is, smiles. How can 6-week old Baby process a middle-aged lady making a goofy face at her or Minnie Mouse rattling around in front of her and in split second decide to smile?
So it might seem like I’m making too much of a few smiles made by beautiful Baby, but perhaps there is something to make too much of. Maybe when we see something like a face the natural, automatic response is to smile and for whatever reason we’ve shut off that response so that a smile becomes something we choose to do rather than something that happens on its own. That’s a messy sentence but it comes down to this…Based on my first babysit in a very long time, Baby automatically smiled in response to other faces. And based on the world in which I live and work, people don’t. Imagine a world where people automatically smile every time they see another person’s face…even if that other person looks like Minnie Mouse.
I think we could all take a lesson from beautiful 6-week Baby this Christmas and make that imaginary world a reality. Simply smile at other faces, regardless of who they belong to and do it…automatically.
Merry 1st Christmas, Baby. Merry Christmas and all the holiday greetings, Everyone!
Eliza G.
How cute! And you’re absolutely right, we should smile at each other more. Sometimes I think we don’t because we assume it won’t be reciprocated or received well.
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Agree! I gave up hoping others receive me well otherwise there would be a little less smiling going on. I am reading The Book of Joy and finding joy is about perspective. Maybe the nonsmiler is having one of those days and needs a smile or better yet…a laugh! Thanks for reading and for your comment. Sending a big smile your way!
Eliza G.
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I hope to get there again one day. True, you never what someone else is going through. Thanks for the book recommendation and your positivity! Have a lovely day!
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🙂 (nuff said)
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